We who preach and write, do so in a manner different from which the Scriptures have been written. We write while we make progress. We learn something new every day. We speak as we still knock for understanding...If anyone criticizes me when I have said what is right, he does me an injustice. But I would be more angry with the one who praises me and takes what I have written for Gospel truth than I would be with the one who criticizes me unfairly. -Augustine

Three Weavers

A young lady just sent this to me…it’s a poem she penned after reading The Three Weavers (a story that is a must read for all girls and boys! www.lamplighter.net)

Don’t give your love to the shepherd boy,
Don’t give your love to the knight;
Don’t give your love to the lowly page,
Though his teeth are flashing bright.

Weave your love on your special loom,
With tenderness and care;
Weave it now, for one day soon,
You’ll find your prince so fair.

Will you give your love to the shepherd boy?
Or will you wait, instead?
Will you treat your loom like a child’s toy?
Or will purity crown your head?

No, I won’t give in to the shepherd boy,
I won’t give in to the page;
I won’t give in to the foolish knight,
Though a war for my heart has been waged.

I’ll hold out long for my perfect prince,
No matter how weary the wait.
I must be strong for my perfect prince–
If only he’d come today!

I will fight to keep my loom secure–
I must protect what is mine!
They have no right to taint what is pure–
My prince will come in time!

by Victoria

Published in: on October 26, 2011 at 1:49 pm  Leave a Comment  

A Soft Answer

When our children have committed an offense, how do we respond? The natural tendency of our flesh is to protect ourselves and our image, allowing anger to escalate and tempers to flare in order to avoid the real heart issue. In self-preservation we insist on having the last word rather than seeking to understand. Too often self-love hinders our ability to reach the hearts of our children. But God’s Word tells us that a soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger. We must break down the barriers that squelch communication, and once again bring about an environment in which we can look beyond the offense and into the heart. No matter how wrong they may be, we are now controlled by the Spirit of God–not by our own selfish heart–and are in a position to provide guidance.

When the prophet Nathan confronted King David with his sin, he didn’t become irate. Rather, he approached David with a story and concluded with the simple statement: “You are the man.” A simple story and a simple statement were all it took to break the heart of the king. Just as Nathan used wisdom when dealing with David, we too can help our children through words that convey wisdom and truth.

If anger consistently controls your life and bears its ugly head whenever you are confronted with a challenge, perhaps now is the time to seek help from a godly pastor, counselor, or wise older couple. Take off your mask and allow yourself to be helped. If we want to be like Christ, then we must be willing to humble ourselves, pray, and seek His help.

It is now time that we confess our faults one to another, and allow God to fill us with His love, joy, peace, longsuffering, and gentleness. It is never too late to change. There is no situation in life that is beyond the life-changing power of our Awesome God!

Published in: on October 26, 2011 at 5:48 am  Leave a Comment